I live in a suburban area. I know that I should be grateful to live here–one of the the safest cities in the country, maybe the world–but yet I can’t help but feel dead and lifeless here. The concrete and planned communities and shopping districts with fountains and green grass lawns drain me, tire me. I hate the artificiality of everything, the way I have no connection here with the earth, the way I have no idea what the landscape would look like if there were no buildings. I hate the fact that people keep green grass lawns and never use them, keep green grass parks and never walk in them. And the fact that the green grass lawns and parks are an affront to the nature of things, they shouldn’t even exist–we live in a desert climate where it rains only about a week out of the year. I like going out into Arizona and New Mexico, out into wide open spaces where people’s homes blend into the landscape, cohere into a bigger picture. Here, everything is constructed and artificial and disjointed–nothing really makes sense. It’s sick and grotesque. It fills me with a sense of sorrow and hopelessness. A sense of loss.
How many of you live in a place like this? Please describe to me where you live. Do you feel that when you look around you, you can see a natural landscape? Or is it planned and artificial? Keep in mind, just because you see plants and trees does not make it natural. For instance, where I live, there are many green parks and lawns, but these are completely unnatural, considering that I live in a desert climate. In light of our state’s current water shortage, it seems excessive to use so much water keeping our lawns green (especially when it seems that so few people these days even enjoy them; people maintain their lawns using timed sprinklers, and rarely go outside - parents are at work all the time, and kids spend their time on video games or the computer).
There are many positive things about the place I live: it is safe. It is clean. For the most part, people are kind and respectful of each other. It is racially diverse. But nevertheless, I think the artificiality of the area contributes to a sense of artificiality in our lives. There is a lot of waste here that goes on - consumerism is very much in vogue.
I’d like to hear about the environment you live in. What does it look like? Where do you go when you feel like connecting with nature? Can you describe what the natural landscape is like? What kind of ecosystem do you live in (do you know, or does the concrete cover everything up)? What are the positive and negative things?








I live in a suburban town of roughly 150,000 near Toronto, Canada. Here houses have bright green lawns as well, like national geographic pictures, just way too bright to be real. There’s a tree planted on the side of each lawn (the government gave one to each house a few years ago) typically surrounded by a ring of flowers.
Where I live however, rain is abundant and a five minute bike ride takes me to trails that lead into forest like depths of nature that look untouched save for the dirt trails carved into them. There is where I go when I need to get away.
There are also some more organized trails.
You can look at some of their photos here:
http://www.oakvilletrails.ca/ig-waterfronttrail.htm
Move your cursor on the trail names on the left then click photo gallery to see them.
I understand what you mean though, I spent some time in Las Vegas last year and the green lawns in the dry 114 weather looked like boobs on a man. They take away from the dirt coloured wisdom and beauty of the place’s nature. In a way, they’re offensive.
Yasmin, those are beautiful pictures. My favorites are the Joshua’s and Sixteen Mile Creek trails. I enjoy hiking and biking as well, but I’d have to travel for miles to find any preserved wilderness around here. I’m rarely able to get out there. But it’s quite lovely. Unlike your area, it doesn’t rain much here, so the landscape is very dry. But it has a special charm of it’s own. I just wish I could see it more often, under all that concrete.
I couldn’t agree more with you. I live in a suburb of Chicago and everything is planned. I think Suburbs are a good way of keeping people safe, but towns are losing all individguality. My town is chock full of chain restraunts and stores. Wallmarts and Applebee’s are taking over. It also annoys me that we do spend so much time and money on parks, then people never use them or pollute them so no one can use them. I really understand what you’re saying Christine, and thanks for posting this article.
I live in a pretty small town. It’s really historic and practically everyone knows everyone. The only problem is that we get TONS of tourists in the summer. They crawl all over our small town. I agree with you how sometimes everything seems too safe and planned out, but I would rather live in a boring and safe place rather than a scary and deangerous place in say Africa or something. I think that alot of people can relate to your article, you posted a good blog!
I live in a suburban area also. Living in “The Garden State” is nice, seeing a lot of fields and gardens is a normal thing. Those fields are not man made or man grown, haha. The lawns of people’s homes are dried out and dead, if they arent fake. And being that everyone feels they need to meet the standards of our name, most people have fake lawns. The schools try to hard to be picture perfect, with fake trees and flowers. THe people here have become lazy and, sometimes it seems, lifeless. Everything seems to fake to even appear real which for me is depressing. I dont enjoy looking out my window on a sunny saturday mourning and being blinded by unnatualy green lawns baking in the heat. For a while this went on, then most people discovered plastic flowers. Outside gardens, they stayed. But the real flowers, they were pulled up. They were replaced by colorful plastic flowers. Everyone thought it was to much work to maintain a garden. So, now in the twenty first century, things are updated, weeding, a thing of the past.
Waiting for people to become fake right along with the fake grass and the fake flowers has become a sort of hobby. The people of the town try to pretend that there kids arent killing other kids in the woods. Or that they arent into drugs or gangs. But the truth is, they are to worried about being the perfect town, when right under their noses their ten year old son is selling drugs in the woods behind the high school like all the other highschool drug adicts. Turning a blind eye is not the way. Making things fake is not the way. My friends dont feel safe, i dont feel safe, nothing is “homey” in our town anymore. It’s all plastic.
Well, I used to live in Las Vegas, Nevada, the defining city of artificial. Every nieghborhood looks exactly the same. The same red rock and green grass, the same tree planted in exactly the same spot, the same white plastic fences and all the bullcrap HOA rules that say you have to keep it that way. Just recently though i moved outside of colorado springs, and even though it still is a city, and has its issues, it is nothing like Vegas. It’s beautiful here. THere are trees everywhere, none of the houses look the same, It’s like the city was built to the shape of the surrounding landscapes. I really love it here.
Wow, that really struck me, never before had I thought about people being unhappy about living in a suburb.
I have always thought they were depressing, unrealistic, and sucking up all our resources. But I never realized that other people who live in them, might think that too.
I am happy, however, at the fact that people are starting to realize these things.
Ecstatic, about being in the generation of realization.
And I hope you have plenty of opportunity to experience nature, regardless of being suburb-bound.
I live, in ALMOST the middle of nowhere in Oklahoma. We don’t have a yard, we have 72 acres of dense forest.
This, I suppose I am lucky for.
You made me realize that.
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